MGTOW Mailbag – I Changed for My Girlfriend | Having a Backbone in Relationships

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  • A lot of women are dating just so they can keep pace with their own female friends. How wrong is that? Dating should be under taken with a clear path to the future, not on a whim or out of pride. What is the reason for dating, finding someone to spend the rest of your life with, period.

  • A woman is supposed to become one with you not you become one with her. Women emulate strong men and become just like them and mirror them, because that's what they like and that's what they're attracted to.

  • These relationships are very much like being addicted to heroin, ir any other powerful narcotic. It’s even similar down to the endorphins that are activated. Before the addiction/relationship occurs the man is is normal self, his real self. As the addiction/relationship developes, the man isn‘t even aware that he has become addicted. He turns from a strong, independent man, to which the girl is originally attracted, to a simp, always begging for another fix, another high. This needy, drug/approval seeking behaviour turns off the girl. She loses all respect for the guy, and she dumps him. The guy is now losing his mind, wondering how a girl who was so crazy about him at first won‘t have anything to do with him now. He is desperate, desperate for that fix, that attention from the girl. He jumps on youtube and buys all the dating coach crap he can find to win back his ex. He learns alot about what he did wrong, and what he should have done, no contact and the like. But addiction is a physical process, not a simple matter if learning what not to do. The truth is, at this point the relationship is dead usually and there is no going back. But to get over the longing, the needy behaviour, which really does manifest as physical withdrawal, takes about six months, and it sucks. Having a trusted confessor or friend to confide in, a hard thing to find sometimes, helps one get through this period. The awesome thing, the light at the end of the tunnel, is that one day that self destructive need for the girl is no longer there. And the man who existed originally has come back. And the feeling of freedom, of independence that one feels beats the hell out of anything else! It is wonderful! No one can yank your chain, or make you do anything you don‘t want to do. Mgtow is Freedom! 🍻👍

  • Keep it up SH, very good content.The point about the natural structure of relationships unless there has been trauma is spot on. And guess who normally traumatisies children both boys and girls ?….. Mommie dearest ? i think soooo….ooo.

  • i havent listened to this yet but the issue with having a backbone is women dont live up to our standards so it seems like having a backbone and not overlooking women’s crap is actually synonymous with being alone.. for example the last girl i spoke to i only spoke to her for a week before cutting her off because she was saying if she ever gets married she will hyphenate her last name with her husband’s… women are generally so awful these days that if u dont put up with something u will drop her within 7 days.. she’s going to say she smokes, or she’ll tell u she’s been in a fwb relationship which just means shes been some guy’s whore for however long.. she’s going to say something feminist.. she’s going to say something rude and disrespectful to you.. if u have a “no bs” attitude then it seems to me u will be alone cuz women are pretty awful these days… it would be great if we could drop a woman and get a good one but what happens is we drop one and there arent any good ones anywhere

  • I your friend won't take your advice let him do his thing, the probability he will at some point break up with this girl is very high. Keep your eyes peeled and when this happens catch him and red pill him. This is the best thing you can do for him.
    When a guy is a blue pill guy trapped by the pussy, you cant really do anything else.

    Remember this, you have to lose something to be red pilled. Offer your help and friendship when his relationship hits the fan and then red pill him. The likelihood of the red pill "sticking" is high if you do this.

  • Women will deliberately sabotage your relationship with friend's and family in order to isolate you. Once isolated, they will try exercise control over you. Women must be kept at a distance.

  • No disrespect, but I'm in favor of MGTOW, I HAVE A SON MYSELF,AND I HAVE NEVER WRITTEN ANYTHING BAD ABOUT A MAN ON ANY CHANNELS,AND ON MY CHANNEL,THAT GIRL POWER LOGO,IT'S BECAUSE I LOVE VINTAGE ART AND MY NEPHEW IS A NAVY SEAL.,THAT POSTER WAS USED IN WARTIME BACK IN THE DAY.

  • Why would we change for a woman. I have yet to find pussy that good. As a matter of fact in my mind if you shut your eyes, it is pretty much all the same. Then the question is will she change for you? Will she rotate the tires on your car? Will she help you move your washer and dryer? Will she help you hide the body? If the answer is no then you shouldn't change for her. To thine own self be true!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Wish more mgtow channels were like yours, teaching men the dangers of women yes, but mostly focusing on helping men build up their self esteem, self potential and self actualisation. That kinda knowledge is invaluable in a society where the average man is told his only self worth is women and in what resources he can provide for them. As much as I’d hate to compare the two I think mgtow does the same thing feminism did for women in the sense of mentally liberating them, and much the same with feminists who are raving misandrists they’re also some mgtow who spoil it for everyone by being genuine misogynistic morons but you do not come off like that at all, honestly I think every young man in the West should be subbed to your channel

  • Dating these days seems to have very similar side effects to drug addiction. Alienating your family? Start hanging around the wrong crowd? Spending money faster than you make it? Call the Dating and/or Drug Abuse Recovery hotline today!

  • The first thing that changes is isolation through frequent sex and compliments. Once isolated she decreases sex dramatically and shit tests you to see your pain tolerance…once you are emasculated, she makes you go on all fours, wears a dildo, gets on top of your back and dangles a sex promise while she assfcks you to move faster while you ask yourself: how did I end up in this position I thought she loved me. The minute you need to change is the decline of the relationship

  • ALL THE JOBS I HAD WITH FEMALE BOSSES HAVE BIN HELL TO WORK WITH MEN BOSSES ARE BETTER FOR ME I LOVE HAVING MEXICAN BOSSES SINCE I AM MEXICAN EVERYDAY SO FUN AT WORK WE ARE IN SALES NOT STRESS FULL FOR ME WITH GREAT FRIENDS

  • Women will crush you like Hitler tried to crush the Jews. Or ISIS tries to crush Christianity right now. Never let her push you around. Never let her change your values or yourself for her. I have been there and done that because of parental dysnfunctions. Which I have sub consciously projected onto the partner. I am 26. Learned of MGTOW at 25. Nearly married a BPD bitch. I hated myself that much in that relationship that I nearly strangled myself to death over it. Be strong in yourselves MGTOW brothers.

  • DAM IT HOODIE YOU GOT ME THINKING DEEP AGAIN HOW I CHANGED FOR A GIRLFRIEND I STOP TALKING TO FRIENDS WAS DISTANT FRPM MY FAMILY WHEN WE ENDED IT I WAS LEFT ALONE IN A WAY I REALLY HAD TO MAKE A NEW SOCIAL SUPPORT GROUP SINCE I LOST MY OLD FRIENDS I AM GOING TO LIVE LIKE A MGTOW MONK FOR A GEE MONTHS JUST ENDED THINGS WITH A OLD WOMAN I WAS SLEEPING WITH I AM 24 SHE IS 38 2 KIDS 19 AND 15 THE SEX WAS NICE BUT SHE WAS INMATURE I HOPED SHE WOULD BE better

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